Abstract: Many single men and women is to assistance or desire to be accepted, the situation becomes even worse.
singles chose a large piece of chocolate into your mouth. from the United States Rob. Ignatius to personal experience to tell you, if you like The frustration and disappointment will come inevitable.
it happens again, hunger seems to have disappeared without a trace, all the sugar and caffeine to your nervous system to bring a feeling of extreme excitement. So you can not help wondering, why not eat the chocolate top three meals a day it? But 30 minutes later, everything changed suddenly mm tear the piercing pain in your stomach, your head began to faint, have all come to naught all the pleasure, kind of uncomfortable and even awkward than your initial hunger sense.
Why is this result? Is there something wrong with chocolate? No, there is nothing in itself unsafe to eat chocolate, but it does not include maintenance of the body of various nutrients necessary for survival. So when you're hungry , the light is of no use to eat chocolate, maybe it will make you feel worse. let the body filled with vitality, you need to keep intake of nutritious food. You can put chocolate as a delicious dessert, but if eat alone Chocolate alive, then you will get sick because of malnutrition.
is true love. many single men and women is to expect from the other side there are fully met. especially when they feel lonely, helpless, or anxious to be accepted, the situation becomes even worse. It seemed desperate to fill the emptiness of their soul, contains sweet taste of romantic feelings, it seemed as if the mind is filled with a solution of hunger, however, is not true.
not blindly
singles looking for love, I have to find a suitable lover to make up for the emptiness . Every time into a new relationship, as begun to taste the chocolate that was high spirits, self-esteem greatly inflated, rose oil, however sweet sense of security. In sharp burst of ecstasy, my heart began to imagine that a woman can ever fill my mind blank. However, this joy will inevitably collapse, and as short as a few weeks or as long as several months. My first wife is seven months in a year of dating and marriage, her happiness suddenly disappeared.
a new relationship regardless of how good feels like, the last is always the joy of romance will fade away. begun to taste, under the kind of love may be as sweet as chocolate, but it certainly can not meet you all survival needs. In addition to care, friendship or family, we truly spiritual thirst can not be unconditionally accepted. We want a man to truly love yourself, no matter how much we have shortcomings, mistakes and imperfections. as long as No one can fully accept that we, our hearts to show a hollow state.
world without unconditional love
In fact, it is impossible to give each other unconditional love. When the other party can not make us happy, we will feel irritable, impatient. In other words, we would love to establish their own performance in each other on the basis of how. no one can ever tolerate and forgive each other. Therefore, people like the taste of chocolate love as joy can not be sustained. we give each other love may be wonderful and moving the first, but once we have the selfish motive, a passion they disappeared. We must recognize this reality, people's love is conditional, from the previous now are like this in the future and always will be the case. you both and the world which people fall in love, the soul can not be satisfied the desire of all. Marriage is also true.
Someone once asked a gentleman : me. We all want to give each other a perfect love, but it is not possible. Marriage is more than you think hard? however, and how many single friends will complain to you, not how life partner is not complete?
Usually, we ignore their hearts are really what they need, and attempts to romance as a cheap alternative to meet the self. This is essentially with the each other, because one day run out of effort and eventually give up. In my case, I had a number of girlfriends, eventually married successfully, but never that romantic love did not give me real satisfaction, perhaps I ask too much, or because she was expecting too much for me, even though we are sincerely wanted an eternal love, but ultimately did not get.
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